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Female Ejaculation and the G-Spot
By: Eric Jackson      Home
August 6, 2008
This story contains mature or graphic content.

    Throughout history, there has always been sex. Moreover, there has been sexual education. Though it seems to me it is completely ineffective. I find that I am not alone; most people of sexual age have been given little education on what to expect in an actual sexual encounter. What is taught mainly relates to menstrual cycles, as well as general male and female anatomy, but it tends to stop there. This is likely due to the constant stigma connected to adults teaching young men and women that sex can and should be a pleasurable experience for both parties.

    As a young boy, a close friend crudely introduced me to masturbation on my front lawn. He ran the garden hose between his legs and stroked it in a gesture that indicated the concept of masturbation along with various moans and groans. It seemed he knew what he was doing. So being young and easily influenced, when it was time to go inside, I went directly to the bathroom to try this process. Wow, it worked, I remember thinking to myself. The first orgasm for me was around eleven or twelve years old, and there was no explanation needed. I followed the rather cryptic lead my trusted friend had demonstrated on the front lawn. Before ejaculating, I felt pressure building in my genital area. I felt like I had to pee, but I trusted my friend knew something that I did not, so I continued and did climax.

    Women, in contrast, are never, ever, given even the smallest hint of what makes them have a pleasurable orgasm. It is my experience women are shunned from sexual conversation or interaction as often as possible from early childhood. There is no wonder emotional scars develop due to the behavior of our society. We tend to create such taboo associated to female sexuality that it actually has a voodoo effect on women. Voodoo only works if it is believable to the recipient. Our society has done exactly that, causing woman to expect little pleasure from sexual relation. As I see it, American scientists and doctors, as well as parents, are the cause of this problem. If there is no empirical proof beyond personal experience of our scientific community, they discount any findings. We all know that scientists, doctors, and parents know everything. (LOL)

    My mission is to put the confusion to rest. Most, if not all, women can ejaculate, barring medical or physical problems. There is and always has been evidence on female ejaculation. Dating back to ancient Hindu Tantra teachings, they called it clan fluid (kuladravya) or clan nectar (kulamrita), translating to “Nectar of the Goddess.” They believed it to be flowing naturally from the woman’s womb. Lacking any actual data to support this belief, the simple fact that it occurred was enough to enlighten their society.

    Over the past four years, I have been on a mission to uncover as much factual information on the subject of female ejaculation as I could. My first encounter with a woman ejaculating was about twenty years ago, I am forty-one now. Something happened during cunnilingus (oral sex) on my girlfriend of two years that sort of shocked me. I could feel a gush of fluid with my fingers inside her. I truly had no idea what it was. Since that time, I have longed to repeat the situation. For the past three years, I have been able to make any willing woman ejaculate and have a true climax. With women so often playing a role in the bedroom, it is very difficult for anyone to really know what is going on inside their heads or their vaginas.

    Being an extremely sexual person, I (like many other men) became frustrated searching for this all illusive area called the g-spot (coined in 1981 by Beverley Whipple honoring Ernest Gräfenberg, MD). In recent years after much research, I believe I have it figured out. There is no g-spot; it is in fact an area. The original citation by Gräfenberg defines an area that is on the anterior (top) wall of the vaginal canal. Interpretations by readers of those original citations determined that there was a single spot described to be about the size of dime that needed stimulation to bring out a vaginal orgasm. This for me was a large part of the problem.
    
    While exploring the interior of the vagina I would try to find this spot. I failed. Since then I have truly discovered the area. The only clear comparison I am able to make is that the area inside the vagina called the g-spot that is really a line, equivalent to the base of the male penis. This area can vary in size, both in length and diameter, from woman to woman. As Gräfenberg determined, it is the area that encompasses the length of the urethra within the vagina. It is not a spot at all, nor did Gräfenberg describe it as one.

    To understand the mechanisms of female ejaculation, you must first have a clear picture in your head of what men and women have in common and what it takes for the common male to ejaculate. When we are conceived, we all start out undifferentiated as to sex. Therefore, it is only common sense that we have the same parts. Male testacies descend; my conclusion is they are the organs that would have been ovaries without the Y chromosome. The clitoral hood (prepuce) becomes foreskin of the penis. The labia majora becomes the scrotum, while the labia minora is the actual skin that envelops the urethra, and erectile tissue and becomes the outside skin of the penis. It seems very simple when spelled out in this manner, but science makes no such correlation.

    Now to the actual fluids: male ejaculate is a combination of things: prostate fluid produced in the prostate gland, as well as sperm produced in the testis. This is combined prior to ejaculation. For women, there is no sperm, nor is there any need for the fluid to be thick and goopy protecting the sperm within. In women, the fluid is exclusively produced by the female prostate (or para-urethral sponge). It is equivalent to sweat, produced by the lymphatic systems of the body, not the urinary system. Many will claim that it is urine, but tests on the fluid show there is little comparison. The fluid is much more like that of the male prostate gland, containing the same prostate specific antigens as well as a very high concentration of sugars, neither of which are present in urine.

    Now most all of us realize that there is little feeling on almost three-forths of the male penis. The entire head of the penis is super sensitive, equal to the clitoris. This provides a great ability to create sexual stimulation there for both men and women. However, very few men will ejaculate by only giving attention to the head of his penis, though it is not impossible. They will have a sexual climax (peak of the hill), but rarely fully ejaculate (top of the mountain). This is what I believe most non-vaginal orgasms are to women. There is a climax, but only to a small degree of what could be. The top and sides of the penis have little sensation. The real area needing attention is the base of the penis where the urethra is clearly visible. The entire shaft of the penis needs consistent pressure and stimulation in order to cause full ejaculation. If you were to imagine an erect penis within an oversized cylinder of equal length and you only had two or three fingers to access this area around the urethra, what would you need to do to cause stimulation and ejaculation? This is how you need to picture, in your head, what is necessary for a woman to ejaculate.

    There is a distinctive area just inside the vagina on the upper wall running from the very end of the urethra and just behind the clitoris that is the “e-spot,” the ejaculation spot. This area runs on both sides and behind the woman’s urethra on the abdomen side. It varies in length and diameter from person to person, just as the penis comes in all shapes and sizes. There has been a widespread idea that a “come here” motion with the fingers will bring an ejaculation orgasm for a woman. This is only partly true. The real situation is that you need to have the smooth area between the first two segments of your finger and apply pressure while sliding on this area. It is much more like a Disc Jockey when they slide a record back and forth. Now what happened to the erectile tissue—ah it’s in there! If you are using the correct motion and pressure, you will feel very specific changes to the interior of the vaginal canal. Upon entry, you will feel an area (mound) of ribbed tissue bulging from the top of the vaginal canal; it feels sort of like our throat. After a small amount of time in an excited state, there will be changes. First there will be a complete smoothness and opening up of the entire inside of the vagina. Then there will be a tremendous build up of pressure. It will become difficult to keep your fingers inside, but you must. This is the point that 90 percent of all women stop you or quickly change positions to stop the feeling of having to pee.

    The only way past this part is trust. As I trusted my friend knew more than I did at age eleven, you must trust your partner. There is no way past it without trust and being comfortable enough with your partner. You are both choosing to venture into unknown areas of sexual relations. If you are not comfortable enough with each other, there is no way to achieve ejaculation. Men, unlike women, don’t care; they just want to cum. For women, sexual relations are so emotional that there must be comfort and relaxation in order for ejaculation to occur.

    It is the job of the partner giving to assure her (the receiver) that it is ok to let it go. When you are getting the feeling that you are being pushed out from the tension of the vagina, you are very close and your job is to let her know it is okay. Tell her again and again. She will only get past the instinctive reaction to hold in urine if you allow it. As previously stated, it is not urine, though you will get everything wet if done correctly. Put down towels in advance to prevent apprehension of wetting the bed.

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